Hello, a year finish... but, what is the next? Maybe we do the correct thing the current year… these only each one knows it, only you know it. They tell that with a new year begin news hopes, new opportunities to improve, to learn, to grow in each one aspects, of business, of the life, of all these things. But when I see the world, the friends, the school, the job, it seems like something broken or wrong. It seem like day after day there are more mistakes, more thief, more lies, but what is the cause of this undesired problems? The reason is the human beings' selfish interest, mine, and yours and maybe of a lot of people around us, this is the lack of love...the absence of love.
But, is it the love to own any material thing? Or is the love to be satisfied by the attitude (conduct) of all the people near to me? Or it is satisfy my desires without consider how is it done? Or is the necessity of be with other person to satisfy each other? At the beginning, this can be how the love is shown. But, what happen? It seem like something is absent....
The things, the life, the world, for almost all, nothing have changed, and maybe those become to be worst and worst, due to the lack of true love, which is the unselfish love. This is more than the "convenience love", more than do an effort (selfish) almost always, to go on with someone (friend, partner) or to try of obtain his or her "love", It is something more than write poems or tell beautiful words of that special person, something more than identify himself or herself with songs considered as "romantics"
The true love is that one which is free of interest, free of manipulation, free of control, is that we give them, it is not anything to have merits or something that we have to win. It is something that simply gives itself; the love is a universal human value. Probably, you are in the group of persons that already reach this step or already your are living the unselfish love and all your life is OK, or maybe you begins the way to arrive at this step or maybe you are of the people that unappreciated read this strange things or you see as an human being's debility to say this ideas. But, what we obtain when we live a life without unselfish love? We get a life free of selfish attitude, free of envy, free of resentment, free of emotional charges, free of take care our shoulders each day, free of poverty, free of power ambition. An example: A man, a rich man, who is an successful businessman, have to get his healthy making and selling a product that he produces, to continue being rich, he has to sell more and who buy the product, must have money to but it, in other words, the purchaser must leave the poverty. If the purchaser is poor, he can not buy anything, because he does not have money… so why, if all of us can be rich, the poverty exists? If we eliminate the poverty all of us win. Why it can be eliminate? The response is because there is selfishness…
The fights, the envy, the intolerance, the destructive criticism, the resentment, the hatred, are something that makes grow our ego, why? Due to the lack of love, not only love to myself, but also (and more important) lack of unselfish love.
Why we can not share the knowledge, our experience, and our spirit with all the people? by envy? Why I have to increase my personal importance and also my selfishness? It is necessary to live in this way, when the entire things can go in the right way? I think that it does not cost much to understand that this is the human being’s essence.
We can act with unselfish love, free of selfishness.
Maybe you see this message adequate, or optimist, or pretentious, or lovely or outside of the reality. After all, each one decides the way of see it, as an opportunity to grow, as a problem, as a challenge, as a group of word without sense……
I hope that you have had a merry Christmas, where the love have born again ant these one confirm itself today and all the days.
Juan José Puente Valdez
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